What is Sin? Am I a Sinner?
- Veronica S.
- Feb 18
- 6 min read
I’m not here to push anyone into religion or force any beliefs upon you, but I do want to share something I've observed from a place of love and concern. I've seen how sin—whether intentional or not—can deeply hurt people and damage relationships. It’s not always about the big, obvious actions we think of as "wrong," but the subtle ways our choices and behaviors affect those around us. Sometimes, people act out of pain, insecurity, or unhealed wounds, and without realizing it, they create distance from those they care about the most. When we’re caught in cycles of hurt, pride, or jealousy, it becomes hard to see the impact on others. But I believe that becoming aware of this can help us begin to heal and change for the better. It’s not about judging, but about understanding that sin, in its many forms, can lead us down paths that isolate us and hurt others. I’m sharing this not to condemn, but to encourage all of us to be more mindful of how our actions affect the people we love and the world around us. In seeking kindness, understanding, and healing, we can create stronger, more meaningful connections.
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How it became:
In the book of Genesis, we learn how sin was introduced to humanity. When Adam and Eve ate from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, they disobeyed God's command, which allowed sin to enter the world. This act of disobedience marked the beginning of humanity’s fall from grace

Genesis 3:4
The serpent deceived the woman, convincing her that eating the fruit would make her like God. The irony, however, is that she was already made in God's image. This was a moment of both irony and deception—she was created with divine reflection, yet Satan manipulated her into doubting what she already possessed.
Genesis 3:20
The Lord God made garments of skin for Adam and Eve and clothed them. This act, where something had to die to cover their sin, served as a foreshadowing of the ultimate sacrifice that would later be required for the redemption of humanity.
How to manage in the old Testimonial:
In Leviticus, there were numerous animal sacrifices made by the people of Israel to temporarily cover their sins. It was like a bandage—providing a momentary solution. For a long time, I struggled to understand why so many animals had to die and why such gruesome acts were required. But I eventually realized that the shedding of innocent blood from these animals symbolized the cost of sin. It allowed the people to draw near to God. Something had to die for salvation, but it was only a temporary covering, pointing to the ultimate sacrifice yet to come.
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What is Sin, and why do we need to sacrifice to help us get closer to GOD.
Sin separates us from God because God is holy, and sin is rooted in deception, pride, rebellion, lust, greed, and more. We are all born with this sinful nature, inherited from Adam and Eve when they allowed sin to enter the world. As a result, we carry this inheritance of brokenness. However, through the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus Christ and His resurrection, a bridge was made possible, allowing us to be reconciled to God.
The brutal way in which Jesus died was a direct reflection of the weight of humanity's sin—the cost of redemption. His sacrifice paid the price that we could never pay, making a way for us to be restored to a relationship with God.
Jesus' resurrection made it possible for us to have a direct connection with God through the Holy Spirit. After His sacrifice on the cross, there was no longer a need for animal sacrifices, as Jesus was the ultimate sacrifice for our sins, once and for all. Through His resurrection, He conquered death and made way for the Holy Spirit to dwell within believers. The Holy Spirit acts as the bridge, enabling us to experience God's presence, guidance, and transformation in our lives. To invite the Holy Spirit into our hearts, we simply need to repent of our sins, place our faith in Jesus Christ as our Savior, and ask the Holy Spirit to come and dwell within us, empowering us to live in close relationship with God. Through the Holy Spirit, we have access to God’s power and presence, drawing us nearer to Him than ever before.
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Everyday life:
In life, we often make choices based on our immediate desires, without truly understanding the long-term impact of those decisions. It's easy to act on impulse, especially when we’re driven by things like pride, comfort, or the pursuit of success. But sometimes, we keep making the same mistakes, ignoring the signs that what we’re doing isn’t good for us or for those around us. This cycle can lead to frustration, unhappiness, or even self-destruction, yet it’s hard to break free when we don’t realize the deeper issue at play. True change comes when we begin to understand the deeper motivations behind our choices and start to acknowledge the consequences. It’s about becoming more self-aware, noticing the warning signs, and making intentional decisions that lead to better outcomes. Without that awareness, we can continue living in a way that doesn’t serve us, all while feeling disconnected from what truly matters in life.
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My POV:
I've witnessed the cruelty that can exist in some people, and while I’ll never claim to be perfect, I strive every day to be better than I was yesterday. I’ve seen mothers manipulate and hurt their children more emotionally than physically. I've witnessed siblings consumed by competition and jealousy, when they should be grateful for the blessings they have. As someone who is spiritually gifted, I can see the hidden hurts, shame, and pain in people’s hearts. Unfortunately, many choose not to acknowledge it and bury it deep within themselves. These unhealed wounds influence their decisions, which often reflect their internal struggles, but ultimately, this is all rooted in sin.
I crave genuine relationships and pure connections, but I've learned that not everyone shares that desire. Many unknowingly reject it, unable to fathom the kind of bond I seek. Though I'm not religious, I can clearly see the truth about sin—it's not just about actions but the deep-rooted pain behind them. I've seen people destroy each other out of selfishness, causing harm to get what they want, even at the expense of others.
When you see someone trapped in sin, it’s clear that the flesh has taken over—how deeply it has consumed them, to the point where even dark influences can lead them into a cycle they can’t escape. It's like watching someone who’s lost in their own actions, repeating the same mistakes over and over, unable to break free. The pain and the cycle of destruction seem endless, as if they are under the grip of something far greater than themselves. But what I've come to understand is that no matter how deep the cycle is, seeking God can break it. When we turn to Him, He offers the strength, wisdom, and guidance needed to break free from the darkness. It’s through His grace that we can find freedom, healing, and a new path. While the flesh may lead us astray, God’s love has the power to transform and lead us back to wholeness.
So like I said to all my clients. When making a choice is it from:
- The Flesh or Spiritual
- Sin or Holy Spirit
- Human emotions or Intuition
Side note: I once heard a spiritual person say they would rather worship a deity that isn’t perfect, so they don’t have to feel shame. Knowing that their deity isn’t perfect somehow made them feel understood and less isolated in their flaws. But in doing this, they unknowingly lowered their expectations and their potential for growth. By choosing a deity who reflects imperfection, they might feel comforted in their mistakes, but they miss the opportunity for true transformation. The reality is, embracing perfection—God and in our own lives—doesn’t condemn us. Instead, it offers a path to redemption, healing, and progress. We don’t need to be ashamed of our flaws; they’re part of our human journey. But striving toward something greater, something perfect, allows us to transcend our mistakes and become the best versions of ourselves.
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